I don’t think it would go anywhere.  The more I think about it, we’re better off as friends, and not romantic partners.  

Among the reasons I have come to this conclusion:

  1. He’s very intimidating.  I don’t feel completely at ease when I speak to him or look at his photos.
  2. He doesn’t want kids.  And I don’t think he means right now.  I think he means never.  I on the other hand, want kids.
  3. In the questions which help determine the compatibility percentage, he says he frequently enjoys arguing with higher authority figures.  I tend to be more quiet while questioning authority.
  4. He gets drunk.  I know, I know.  This really isn’t an issue.  But it is to me. I rarely ever drink, and being around someone who gets drunk makes me uncomfortable.  And I don’t like being in situations where I am uncomfortable.

Does this make me a bad person?  That after one night of IM’ing a guy for two hours I have decided we’re better off as friends?  That we’ve never met and I’ve decided this?  Because I am really curious to find this out.

You guys have been hugely helpful in the past, so offer me your wisdom. I can’t promise I will take it, but I will definitely read it and consider it.